not me!
Rhonda Yeah! no one said it's easy!

----- Original Message -----
From: "Ariel" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Friday, January 09, 2004 6:37 PM
Subject: Re: IS IT ME OR WHAT?


> Thanks, Rhonda.  Guess I've gotta take some of my own medicine about
asking
> for help when I need it the way I told you to do.  Smile.
>
> Paul
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Rhonda Partain" <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Friday, January 09, 2004 6:31 PM
> Subject: Re: IS IT ME OR WHAT?
>
>
> > Yes, you should call him!  I too hate asking people for help, even if
they
> > have offered in the past.  We can't just think they will automatically
> know
> > what we need.
> > Rhonda
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "Ariel" <[log in to unmask]>
> > To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > Sent: Friday, January 09, 2004 5:36 PM
> > Subject: IS IT ME OR WHAT?
> >
> >
> > > Okay, asking your opinion on a situation that happened today.  We had
> > cruddy
> > > weather today, rain, sleet, it's even supposed to snow tonight.  And
> > knowing
> > > I don't like to drive in that stuff my buddy has offered in the past
to
> > > drive me in to work and has done it once or twice before.  Last time
he
> > said
> > > to call next time I needed a ride in.   So today when it was so crummy
I
> > > thought he would be coming to pick me up and didn't call. (It's not a
> big
> > > deal because I had stuff I could work on at home and could actually do
> > > better at home anyway.)  He wrote from work and asked why I hadn't
> called
> > > and I said that I didn't want to impose. Even though he offered, he
has
> a
> > > wife and daughter and the situation could have changed so I thought if
> he
> > > could pick me up, he would, and if not, he wouldn't.  Besides, he's my
> > > friend but he's also a full Colonel (one-step below a General).  He
> wrote
> > > back and said that was B S.  So what do you think?  Should I call him
> next
> > > time, even though he knows where I live and already made the offer and
> > knows
> > > I need a ride?  Or should he just know I need the ride and show up if
he
> > > can?
> > >
> > > Clueless in Columbia