Peggy,

You are right, of course, and she may very well end up moving out.  I only
gave her to the end of this year because of her children; it wasn't out of
any sympathy for her.  My sense is that she really does want to do what is
right but she is so confused about who she is in Christ, she can't see it.
One way I will know about her attitude is in prayer sessions.  If we don't
have them, nothing will change.  If we have them, I'll know if she is
allowing the Lord to minister to her pain and lies.  she cannot fake that.
I've prayed with those before who have faked it.  If they knew how blatantly
obvious it is, they wouldn't even bother to pray.  So, the ball is in her
cort.  Plus, she has lots of people watching her and that always helps.

Phil.