Amy,
My guess is, when she finds out, or rather comes to grips with her issues,
she will be a changed person, and those around her that will come to know
her issues, likely those closest to her, will feel perhaps sorrow for her
past as well as their own towards her, perhaps even ashamed and
remorseful. Seems to me she has been hurt very bad in her life somehow and
is so struggling to be close and want that so very much, yet so very
afraid to be close for fear of being hurt again. The fear is not likely
rational, but very real nonetheless and appears to be a great tug of war
in her. I pray she does not leave it dormant because it is all the longer
she lives life with useless and wasteful baggage preventing her and others
from entering great relationships which time is unforgiving.
Brad
on 08:46 AM 8/30/2005, Amy Gordon said:
Brad,
That's right. We just can't figure out what is wrong with her. I
just
pray every day that God will reveal the real issue with her and will help
me
and my Dad deal with this. The thing is that she isn't just like this
with
us. It is with alot of people.
Amy
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From: "Brad D" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Tuesday, August 30, 2005 12:38 AM
Subject: Re: Very Bad Day
> Mom needs some prayer too that her issues be taken care of. I get the
> distinct sense you and dad are victims as well of what mom is dealing
> with, or rather avoiding. God be yawls guide.
>
> Brad
>
>
> on 02:35 PM 8/29/2005, Amy Gordon said:
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> how she will react. I'm trying to stay upstairs away from her. I just
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> am so hurt because this happens so often. She doesn't ever tell me =
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>
> Thanks,
> Amy
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> Amy
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