Brad,
I try to talk to her sometimes but ever time I just get shut down by
something smart she will say. I really want to try to have a great
relationship with her but I can't figure out how to make it work. It hurts
me badly and his hurting my Dad to because I think he feels the same way.
We just don't know what to do besides keep praying.
Amy
----- Original Message -----
From: "Brad D" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:21 PM
Subject: Re: Very Bad Day
> Amy,
>
> My guess is, when she finds out, or rather comes to grips with her issues,
> she will be a changed person, and those around her that will come to know
> her issues, likely those closest to her, will feel perhaps sorrow for her
> past as well as their own towards her, perhaps even ashamed and
> remorseful. Seems to me she has been hurt very bad in her life somehow and
> is so struggling to be close and want that so very much, yet so very
> afraid to be close for fear of being hurt again. The fear is not likely
> rational, but very real nonetheless and appears to be a great tug of war
> in her. I pray she does not leave it dormant because it is all the longer
> she lives life with useless and wasteful baggage preventing her and others
> from entering great relationships which time is unforgiving.
>
> Brad
>
>
> on 08:46 AM 8/30/2005, Amy Gordon said:
> Brad,
> That's right. We just can't figure out what is wrong with her. I
> just
> pray every day that God will reveal the real issue with her and will help
> me
> and my Dad deal with this. The thing is that she isn't just like this
> with
> us. It is with alot of people.
>
> Amy
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Brad D" <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Tuesday, August 30, 2005 12:38 AM
> Subject: Re: Very Bad Day
>
>
> > Mom needs some prayer too that her issues be taken care of. I get the
> > distinct sense you and dad are victims as well of what mom is dealing
> > with, or rather avoiding. God be yawls guide.
> >
> > Brad
> >
> >
> > on 02:35 PM 8/29/2005, Amy Gordon said:
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> > Hello everyone,
> > Today started out as a good day but now it isn't so good. My Mom
> =
> > asked me what happened to me and Tommy, which used to be my
> boyfriend. =
> > I told her again that we had decided to just be friends. Then I said =
> > that it was because of some stuff going on. I then paused and decided
> I =
> > would tell her more but she said how come you can tell everyone else
> but =
> > can't tell me? I have told her before why I can't tell her things. So
> =
> > then she said well I guess you can get someone else to help you with =
> > your Sunday school lesson. She records it for me so I can teach it. I
> =
> > really would like to tell her things but I can't because I never know =
> > how she will react. I'm trying to stay upstairs away from her. I just
> =
> > am so hurt because this happens so often. She doesn't ever tell me =
> > anything either. Dad has the same problem with her. Please pray for =
> > me.
> >
> > Thanks,
> > Amy
> >
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> > boyfriend. I told her again that we had = decided to=20 just be
> > friends. Then I said that it was because of some stuff = going=20
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> > then paused and decided I would tell her more but she said = how
> come=20
> > you can tell everyone else but can't tell me? I have told her = before
> > why I=20 can't tell her things. So then she said well I guess you can
> get
> > = someone=20 else to help you with your Sunday school lesson. She
> records
> > it = for me so=20 I can teach it. I really would like to tell her
> things
> > but I can't = because=20 I never know how she will react. I'm trying
> to
> > stay upstairs away = from=20 her. I just am so hurt because this
> happens
> > so often. She = doesn't=20 ever tell me anything either. Dad has the
> > same problem with = her. =20 Please pray for me.
> >
> > Thanks,
> > Amy
> >
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