Do you spit when you eat or something?
Sorry to hear that you had to go through that.
Or that it bugged you.
The tongue is powerful that is for sure.
I have a cd set on that subject as well.
Everytime I listen to it, I close my mouth a little more because I tend to
say dumb things or too much or people take things the wrong way.
Of course, the other side of that is, I have heard that when you try not to
say dumb things, that on the inside of you there is a locker labeled dumb
things and as you keep your mouth shut, dumb stores up in that locker and
sooner or later it gets full and pops open!
You can't help it sometimes, you just say dumb things.  Another thing is,
you can't count on people to be wonderful to you all of the time.  It has
been planted in our brain that if we do good, that we will receive good in
return and it don't always go that way.
If you do something good, because you expect good in return, then you are
expecting too much.  You should do good because it is right.

You know what?
I am running my mouth and I am going to shut up now.
hahahahah
IN short form,
I am sorry you had a bad experience and got your feelings hurt.
I say dumb things too sometimes and regret it.
Those who say dumb things and don't regret it, just know not what they are
doing eh?
Perhaps the holey spirit will catch up with them eventually just as he is
with me.

Matt