Ha!
My aides call themselves my assistants, and resent it when I treat them as
servants or maids. I'm supposed to do the things I can do for myself, (okay,
fine) and they're doing the things I cannot do. The tension comes, when I
raise my voice, or forget to ask in a nice way that they do something, even
though I might not have slept for more than 4 hours the night before, and am
in a tremendous amount of pain...  I wanted her to do something right away,
and I got scolded for just blurting it out.

Mag