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>jean-claude:
>> Yes everything can be use by egos to separate ,especially sarcasm!
>
>Maybe 'separate' is just as valid as 'connected'.  ;)

to want to be validated in separating seems to me , an inconscious  desire
to connect.
>
>> "spiritual help "  (and not "spirituality ") was  just a word to attempt
to
>> express a feeling of connectiveness to the whole.
>
>If you felt this connectedness, I doubt that you would be seeking it all
the
>time, or expecting that others perseverate on it as much as you do.


you are free from any of my expectations . I was not even talking to you in
the first place .
>
>> something it seems , you will rather choose to  kill in the nest than
>> opening up to.
>
>What is the proper response to a line like that???

>
>How about: you win. You're connected and I'm separate and you are good and
I
>am evil and any questioning of your premises proves exactly that.
>


Proper, win, good , evil?? seems hard to appreciate life when seen as a
contest .and one proper answer.
you lose more than you think !
jean-claude