-- >jean-claude: >> Yes everything can be use by egos to separate ,especially sarcasm! > >Maybe 'separate' is just as valid as 'connected'. ;) to want to be validated in separating seems to me , an inconscious desire to connect. > >> "spiritual help " (and not "spirituality ") was just a word to attempt to >> express a feeling of connectiveness to the whole. > >If you felt this connectedness, I doubt that you would be seeking it all the >time, or expecting that others perseverate on it as much as you do. you are free from any of my expectations . I was not even talking to you in the first place . > >> something it seems , you will rather choose to kill in the nest than >> opening up to. > >What is the proper response to a line like that??? > >How about: you win. You're connected and I'm separate and you are good and I >am evil and any questioning of your premises proves exactly that. > Proper, win, good , evil?? seems hard to appreciate life when seen as a contest .and one proper answer. you lose more than you think ! jean-claude