>I think I have the perfect solution for you.  (If I read correct that you
>are after flavor and not a cooking ingredient.  I buy "Buttery Delite" by
>Tryson House.   It is Kosher U-Parve.  It comes in a spray can, just like
>Pam does.  It has a quite distinct butter flavor, and you can spray in on
>corn, eggs, popcorn, toast, etc.  Of course it will not serve you well for
>baking and such, but I use it in the frying pan to panfry in "butter".  I'm
>not saying the stuff IS butter, but, I think it's pretty decent product.
>In case you cannot get it in your area, there is an 800 # you might want to
>call.

Thanks! That's exactly what I want. I'll still call the manufacturer, since
the natural flavors can be milk-derived and still be considered pareve.
Unfortunately for us highly sensitive milk-allergics, pareve does not
always equate to non-allergenic.