Rhonda,
    I know what you mean.  It is very hard to deal with things when we don't
understand.  I just keep reminding myself that God is there and things are
happening for a reason though sometimes it doesn't make it easier sometimes.

Amy
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From: "Rhonda" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Wednesday, December 07, 2005 8:25 PM
Subject: Re: how to answer


> Good thoughts!! about the same conclusion I had arrived at... I just feel
so
> sad for the Mom, I imagine how I'd feel if it were one of my  girls! Ben's
> mother lost her first child at age three to leukemia and my grandmother
had
> a sister die at 15.
> I do pray, life is such that it seems to be the only solution...
> Rhonda