Betty- I feel for you--I cared for my Mother in Law & she truely enjoyed
illhealth.  I finally said either you follow Dr. orders & work to get well,
or we will look at a nursing home placement till you can care for
yourself...I have 2 kids to care for & need some cooperation...well she said
she would find a doc who thought her way...well she couldn't-and 2 weeks in
a nice nursing home & she decided to follow orders & come home.  I took
verbal abuse those 2 weeks when we visited & ALL her phone calls--but she
realized it was a 2 way street & I was the best she had...her son's weren't
there everyday like I was...... Take time out for yourself!   You need
it-don't ruin your health...  Joy