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> What I'm trying to say is that the problem isn't the List Server,
> its because most people use a M$ program to receive mail which
> appears to have been designed by a rather large committee who
> didn't ask users what they wanted, just how pretty can we make it
> look!! Sorry, can't help.



Oh boy, that was beyond my understanding.  However, other lists such as
Our-Kids which is moderated by Randy Ryan have the reply to (private post)
and reply to all ( public post) option and is another list on the St
John's/Maelstorm group, as is C-palsy This made me I think it was up to the
list owners to decide on whether to use these options. I know when I joined
another list called Preemie Child it was set up  just like C-Palsy until the
list owner made the changes about a year after I joined.  I assumed that the
same could be done for c-palsy as other list owners managed to change the
settings. Like I said before, just a suggestion to try to prevent any more
embarrasing moments.But if you say it can't be done I'll  have to take your
word for it.
Joanne
Joanne