Loving Kathy,

You are not mean and you are not a Mother Bear. You are very kind and 
loving. Please don't forget that. Some times we have to learn hard 
lessons from the school of hard nocks, and I hope and pray that Chris 
learns from this lesson, and I would call this tough love. You are 
doing what you feel is best for Chris. God knows your heart.

Praying for you and your loving family.

Love you,
Pat Ferguson



At 03:09 PM 2/11/2006, you wrote:
>He called from Nicki's house to let me know that he has been kicked
>out of there, I guess.  He said that the guy that he stayed with on
>Thursday night got kicked out of his place too so he slept on the
>street last night.  If that is true, it was only 2 above last
>night.  He begged me to give him an excused absence from school for
>yesterday, but I said "no."  But, he didn't want to hear about how
>any of this is his fault.  When I tried to talk to him about unwise
>decisions, he had to go, again.  I guess that he is still going with
>Nicki, but he got kicked out because Nicki's mother found their
>notebook in which they write back and forth to each
>other.  Evidently, Chris said some pretty nasty stuff about them in
>the notebook and she, Nicki's mother, decided that she had had enough
>of Chris as well.  I suggested that Chris try the Bangor Area
>homeless shelter, but he was just so combative, there is no way I
>want that back here.  I guess that he's still fixin' to dig a deeper
>hole.  Man this is painful.  He is better than this.  He really
>is.  It's just a stupid shame and a waste of a life.  I just want to
>grab satan and throttle him!!!!!
>Kathy, alious  Mother Bear