Phil brought up a good point with his discriptions of uncleanness.
Today's society teaches us that sexual fantasies and relational fantasies in
general are perfectly normal to engage in.  I had never considered that that
kind of behavior was actually adultry until I started listening to Jimmy and
Karron Evans' message.
It was a real bummer for me too, to have to try and aulter that mental
behavior but it does make your marage stronger when you put all of your
focus in those areas on your own spouse and stop worreying about what the
couple down the road might have which we don't yet, or which we have
neglected and/or lost for the time being.
Tv is an evil in this sort of thing as well.  It shows us way to much in the
way of supposed perfection and so called chemistry driven relationships.
The Evans' teach that if Chemistry were all you needed to have your
relationship run smoothly that hollywood would have the best marages of all
and we all know that's not true.  Marage takes work and it's not always
hearts and flowers and it's hard not to lose focus and start looking at
other's who seem to be doing better than us.
You guys probably already knew all of this but if I stop writing I'm just
going to have to take the trash out.
hahahahah

Take care,

Matt