Paul,
Of course not. <smile>
If I was upset with you or anyone, I would tell you. <smile> <squeeze> lol.
Paul, can I call you some time? I want to hear your loving voice. <grin>
I forgot to write your number down, as I think we had it at one time.
<grin> lol.
Can you email it to me privately, please? I also have unlimited long distance.
Love and Blessings,
Pat who will be glad when Norton is done scanning this computer
At 09:05 PM 1/9/04 -0500, you wrote:
>Thanks, Pat. I hope you're not upset with me for teasing about Vernon and
>the checks. John made me do it. Smile.
>
>Always an Alibi Lion
>----- Original Message -----
>From: "Pat Ferguson" <[log in to unmask]>
>To: <[log in to unmask]>
>Sent: Friday, January 09, 2004 8:45 PM
>Subject: Re: IS IT ME OR WHAT?
>
>
> > Paul,
> >
> > I've found that some people don't like to just do things without being
> > asked. They don't like to intrude. I would call him the next time you need
> > a ride to work.
> >
> > I've found that some times I've had people say to me this: "Oh I should
> > have given you a ride." or this: "Oh, I should have taken you to the store
> > with me." Then I feel like saying, "Well, why didn't you? <grin> but I
> > never say that.
> >
> > I know how you feel about imposing, I hate to impose on anyone, yet some
> > times I get really frustrated when I can't get somewhere because I don't
> > have a ride. It's not like I can just get in the car and drive some where.
> > <grin>
> >
> > I've been told that if I want help, I should ask for it, but I really hate
>to.
> >
> > Last night, Vernon made Marilynn an offer. She wants him to build her a
> > cabinet for her, so VErnon and I talked about it yesterday before going to
> > her house last night. We agreed that if she helps him with his inventory,
> > he would build her cabinet for just the retale price of the wood and other
> > parts. He will not charge her any labor, so she could help him with this
> > project and me, with any project I might need help with.
> >
> > He needs to get rid of the Lawn and Garden inventory of parts he has in
> > stock, probably about $25,000 or $30,000 worth of parts. He wants to sell
> > these parts to anyone wishing to buy them at dealer cost.
> >
> > Today Marilynn came over after lunch and she got to work with SCANACAN
> > Professional. <grin> lol. She loved it. She also helpped me make beds. We
> > had fun doing that. I was feeling down today, and she asked me if I was
> > feeling left out, I told her "Heavens no." We three get along great
> > together, and we have fun.
> >
> > She will be here tomorrow morning, and she'll bring the pants she took to
> > hem for me, if she has time to get them done. I will pay her for that
> > little job, because that's the agreement we have. If these pants are more
> > difficult than the others, and if she wants more money for hemming them,
> > that's fine with me. I'll pay her what she asks for, within reason. <grin>
> > lol. She won't be out of line, though. <grin>
> >
> > I'm praying for everyone in this kind of situation, needing help now and
> > then. Praying for you, Loving Brother, Paul.
> >
> > Many lovings and squeezings.
> >
> > Love and Blessings,
> > Pat Ferguson
> > At 05:36 PM 1/9/04 -0500, you wrote:
> > >Okay, asking your opinion on a situation that happened today. We had
>cruddy
> > >weather today, rain, sleet, it's even supposed to snow tonight. And
>knowing
> > >I don't like to drive in that stuff my buddy has offered in the past to
> > >drive me in to work and has done it once or twice before. Last time he
>said
> > >to call next time I needed a ride in. So today when it was so crummy I
> > >thought he would be coming to pick me up and didn't call. (It's not a big
> > >deal because I had stuff I could work on at home and could actually do
> > >better at home anyway.) He wrote from work and asked why I hadn't called
> > >and I said that I didn't want to impose. Even though he offered, he has a
> > >wife and daughter and the situation could have changed so I thought if he
> > >could pick me up, he would, and if not, he wouldn't. Besides, he's my
> > >friend but he's also a full Colonel (one-step below a General). He wrote
> > >back and said that was B S. So what do you think? Should I call him
>next
> > >time, even though he knows where I live and already made the offer and
>knows
> > >I need a ride? Or should he just know I need the ride and show up if he
> > >can?
> > >
> > >Clueless in Columbia
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