My Mom is afraid too.  I really feel for their situations -- my Mom and your
Grandmother.  I talked with my nephew today and he was crying during the
whole conversation.  He is completely shaken by his grandmother's impending
death.  We can keep in touch privately Joy, if you want.  It sounds like we
both have "stuff" we could share with each other.

In a message dated 06/05/2000 6:18:17 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
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> hanks so much for your kind words, I really needed them today.  As for my
>  grandmother, she's really afraid of a group care situation.  She's going to
>  be coming home sometime next week, and they'll have a hospice nurse visit a
>  few times a day.  She called this morning before I left for school, crying,
>  and asked if my mom was on her way yet.  She's scared to be alone, so all
of
>  my family is taking mornings off of work to be with her.  It's really
>  painful to watch her go through this, but I can only imagine how it is for
>  her.  Keep fighting... Sometimes that's the only way to get what you need.
>