I welcome the honesty'


And all the detail.

Be sure all lines of communication are open and healthy.    With everyone in
your family.

Make sure everyone is ok with the huge [personal? Familial?] decisions that
have been taken ...

I'm not yet  okay with certain decisions that were taken for me at different
times in my life

And in my eyes they were huge...  but that is just me trying to cope w life

 therefore keep communication freeflowing

M
Adult hemi perisis mild





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From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of
Allan Olive
Sent: Friday, March 20, 2009 16:38
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: Where to get answer, counseling for families of a child with
CP.

Daniel does get therapy in school every day and once a week at a local
place.

You asked if there other things which may add to her frustration.  

Daniel has three other brothers, two older and one younger, from ages 17 to
2.  My wife still wants to have more kids.  I know she wants a girl.  But I
told her that I was through, that four was enough and we have our hands full
now.  So last week she got her tubes tied, so no more kids.

Honestly, Daniel is part of the reason I don't want any more kids.  Our
hands are full taking care of him.  It's like having an infant who needs
full time attention and care.  She knows that was part of my decision and
maybe she is taking that out on him.

Sorry for all the detail, but it does play a part in what we are dealing
with.

This is just really uncharacteristic of her.  She is such a loving and
caring person and has always treated the kids well.  She is still her normal
self with all of the other kids, it's just Daniel that she is venting on.

Thanks  

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