Phil,
You can see that I read this message late but I am praying for the meeting
and will continue to pray for Gretchen.  She means too much to the Lord to
give up on her!  I believe God has important things in Gretchen's future.
He wants her to be His and minister for Him.  I know how hard this can be
for you and Sandy and I know it seems like it will never change nor end.  It
will!  God has plans for her.

Ned