Susan, Have you tried other milk substitutes? DariFree is a potato based milk. Blue Diamond is supposed to have a wonderful tasting chocolate milk. For eating cereal, my son also uses Mocha Mix non-dairy liquid creamer found next to the cream & liquid coffemate. Even my LI hubby liked the Mocha Mix. Albertson's has their brand too that is dairy/casein free. Janice ><snip> but they don't >seem to see the relationship between PMS and milk.I have coconut milk >available for them and books about milk and its dangers but I am getting no >where in this department. >What to do? > >All the best, > >Susan