b"h it has been made starkly clear by someone other than immediate family who utterly loves me for me blemishes and all painfully so that i have no head for business/ building parnassah as it is called.for to support a (potential) family. ======================== i'm going to ask you/beg you for a favor soon, a brief bkround ========================== i suppose it was parents who are first in line to teach these skills to children healthy or .... not so healthy and if they didn't the community would be responsible and if not the person him/ herself it will be fallen upon themselves to pick themselves by the bootstraps and learn it themselves somehow. over the last two months or so if i had a half cent for every comment of "i'm too busy" or the like i would be a trillionaire and my lifes parnassah would be made as it is i am not rich and searching for these answers over the years medical issues came up, etc simply no excuse for not knowing those things simply had to wait for later... due to what seemed other pressing events to take care of first. ================================== if someone.....anyone approaches you to ask your advise about a pressing problem please try your best to help out.and take the request very seriously what i fear, is those who say "i'm too busy".... will go to sleep and not wake up in the morning why? god was... too busy to breath life into that persons soul to carry on with torah and mitzvos for another day very humbly currently with a broken heart meir -- ********************************************** B"H Brought to you by The Weiss Family mailto:[log in to unmask] OR mailto:[log in to unmask] [ICQ:13912005] ********************************************* YECHI HK"K ADONANU MORAINU V'RABBANU MELECH Ha MOSHIACH L'OLOM VO'ED!!!!!