On Tue, 27 Jul 1999 14:31:16 EDT Heidi Loncosky <[log in to unmask]> writes: >I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who didn't take NO for an answer ! >I would love to hear how other people respond to criticism or if they even >get criticism when people question your child's reactions to the allergens >that "you" have idenitfied. I don't tell them that she tested negative. Our allergist is good in that he certainly beleives me when I tell me she reacts to something even though a skin test is negative. I have had trouble with pediatricians who are not as familiar with allergies/food reactions. As for family members, most have seen her react - she used to spit up/vomit now has more behavioral outbursts. She also still gets eczema. It's a pretty visual thing either way. Even the most sceptical (i.e. my MIL) counted the number of times she spit up on her after being fed something (bread) that apparently contained dairy. She also had a wonder eczema flare up the next day for the photo sitting that my MIL was paying for. Needless to say, she's still skeptical, but keeps her mouth shut more :-) >Also I'd like to know what people do in situations where they are trying in >make sure that their child doesn't get those foods but they have no >"scientific" proof why they can't have the foods. Ex: school, camp The experience we have here is our playgroup. She's only 28 months, so haven't gotten to other things yet like preschool. There are enough other mom's as well as kids with food reactions that most (not all) respect the "don't feed Alyssa" policy. Our mom's in general will ask before feeding someone else's child. I did just recently have an incident where Alyssa got a big yogurt kiss from one of the other kids, but most aren't allowed to walk around with food or messy hands. I just calmly got out a wipe and cleaned her up. No apparent reaction - we haven't tried dairy in quite some time. I'm not looking forward to letting her in the care of strangers though. Kathy P. ___________________________________________________________________ Get the Internet just the way you want it. Free software, free e-mail, and free Internet access for a month! Try Juno Web: http://dl.www.juno.com/dynoget/tagj.