Chester: Have you tried a urinal beside your bed? I thought a leg bag was for people that had no control but I may be wrong. I would ask your Dr. and see what he suggests. Your parents are trying not to baby you and you want something that helps you now and in the future. I would also ask your Dr. about Ensure and your weight. I was always skinny and gained weight in the last three years because of middle age spread. I hope you find solutions to your problems. Stephen Allman