<<Disclaimer: Verify this information before applying it to your situation.>> Dear Listmembers, I felt that I just had to make another response on this topic. I have read on the list, have heard from my celiac friends, and have had people post me about the problems that they have with friends and relatives concerning their diets and bringing their own food, etc. I just had one yesterday where someone is dreading being with the relatives at the holidays, as they hassle her about bring her own food! I also heard from someone whose own grandma wouldn't let her cook her GF stuff in her kitchen for Thanksgiving. Okay, I suggested the other day that people take their own stuff to be safe, just say that they have food allergies and bring something to share, if possible. Now, it seems like with some people we have to take the tough approach. Ask these offending people if they would urge a diabetic to eat a plate of cookies, or urge an alcoholic to have a drink. Also, why not have one of those gross pictures of damaged villi in your purse or pocket to show them what can happen to you? I just don't understand this, as I haven't had this problem, but I sympathize with those who have. If anyone else can think of a tough approach to take with "Grandma" and the gang for the holidays, let me know and I'll summarize. Karen from Central NY, US