I have no problem with a lively discussion or a great debate but I do have a problem when people start treating other people (especially people that you've never even met), the way some the people on this list have been treated recently. I would expect this kind of behavior from children but not from adults. I don't care who's on the list as long as we treat each other like we would expect to be treated. I looking for help for my children! I thought I was getting somewhere! Heidi L. :(