<<Disclaimer: Verify this information before applying it to your situation.>> Hi everyone-a new question has just come up. I have been invited to a formal wedding. How do I handle getting an edible meal? My fisance says I should ask at the affair, and pick and chose. My mom recommends writing or calling the bride ahead of time, maybe enfclosing a note with our rsvp. How has anyone else handled this? all ideas greatly appreciated! Thsanks-Marne in NJ