From: SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]>
Subject: Re: In catching up with Maafanta
To: [log in to unmask]
Date: Friday, September 11, 2009, 3:21 PM

Many ways christine. many ways. But to share the fact with you will border on irrelevant dialoque as you are coming from a different experience. God knows better than me, i agree with what he recommends than what any man or woman might think is of superior disposition. Suntou --- On Fri, 11/9/09, Halima Sukuna <[log in to unmask]> wrote: From: Halima Sukuna <[log in to unmask]> Subject: Re: In catching up with Maafanta To: [log in to unmask] Date: Friday, 11 September, 2009, 8:11 PM Hi Suntou,   1. How do you administer polygamy properly?   Thanks, -Chris       --- On Fri, 9/11/09, SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]> wrote: From: SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]> Subject: Re: In catching up with Maafanta To: [log in to unmask] Date: Friday, September 11, 2009, 12:45 PM Indeed Pa. The polygamy thing is blamed on men, but when you take a serious look, especially with so many available single (sisters) down the streets of banjul-Serre kunda, talkless of Upcountry. Women are pitting more against each other than the men. I have seen highly educate women infact entrapping already married men, so the bug most stop somewhere. I was evening looking into it myself for all you know. But am scared to death of my wife, so i cooled down. The marabou industry is booming becus of the women to women fight. the guys just end with over blown tomy, after all the dark water mixed into pourage and domoda, the risk for all sides seems to be too high. I support women's right, but also support the recommendation of the almighty God. This is not to say, brothers don't have the capacity to be fair and just. The brothers have to be fair and equatable, not doing that spell doom. No one can love two beautiful black sisters equally, lol-du possible, but at least be fair and just. Polgamy is a solution if administered properly. Pa, Ron is disqualify to discuss this matter. he doesn't have one yet, so why should he put his mouth into talking about two or three? Go guys,. suntou --- On Fri, 11/9/09, A. Jallow <[log in to unmask]> wrote: From: A. Jallow <[log in to unmask]> Subject: Re: In catching up with Maafanta To: [log in to unmask] Date: Friday, 11 September, 2009, 6:13 PM Why should independent minded talented women make you sleepless? Support them if you can otherwise learn from them.  -Abdoulie  Sent from my iPhone On 11 Sep 2009, at 17:37, [log in to unmask]" target=_blank rel=nofollow>[log in to unmask] wrote: Suntu, Feminism at its best at Maafanta. Our men folks should watch their backs. What is sister FJM and others unto? Girl cool down your temper. I would love to hear Rons views on this one. Some one needs to speak out. I read extensively about western feminist philosophers and their achievements. I will share the reasoning of Mary and others if time permits. I think it takes two to tango. I am a strong advocate for women's rights and empowerment. I will continue do that. Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T From: SUNTOU TOURAY Date: Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:39:12 +0000 To: <[log in to unmask]" target=_blank rel=nofollow>[log in to unmask]> Subject: In catching up with Maafanta The sisters are talking tough man. The polgamy thing and all. I thought we are cool with that, but guess what the sister are on to us. We need a plan! They are saying some of us are polgamying anyway, with our secerataries, and personal assistants. They are also saying, well then let it stay down in Gambi, not U.S or Europe. Anyhow, the sisters wish to clearly define where and how polygamy should be practise. they don't like it and cannot like it. I am sure all you brothers know for a fact that, 'no woman will ever like co-wife'. the sisters have raise their voices, did all kinds of make-up (fatou Jaw's) comments-- but when a Gambian man wish to take a second wife, there is no stopping him. not even the tones of moro's or serign's tupi tupis can do anything. Now i am biggining to understand the magnitude of stress and sadness our sisters go through. but well, are there any plus side to polgamy? I mean, when you find beautiful black sisters having no problem whatsoever of becoming a second wife. all they want is someone to be it and share the joy of 'LOVE'. The guys too seems to be in a paka nyari borr situation too sisters.   The other topic at Maafanta that caught my eye was the analysis on uncle Sam by AMNA. he/she couldn't have put it any better. she/he diagnose Sam better than the best psyco-analyst. she/he just unravel Sam so good, one begins to look over his shoulder. Thanks AMNA.   www.maafanta.com. my little thought.. not forgetting miss Aisha Saidy's brilliant counter to that of the notable Fatou Jaw. Now then bring on Jabou (the experience) Jow. 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