i do guess it depends on ones nature and maybe how they feel at a given moment as to how to deal with people, but as i said no one is obligated to do anything they do not want to do. --- On Mon, 5/26/08, Tamar Raine <[log in to unmask]> wrote: > From: Tamar Raine <[log in to unmask]> > Subject: Re: what were your childhoods like? > To: [log in to unmask] > Date: Monday, May 26, 2008, 1:04 AM > saturday, i thought of a new way to poke fun at those who > stare at me rudely. I look over my shoulder, then glance > back at the rude person, hopefully my expression say; Uh, > what is it? an alien over my shoulder? > honestly, susie is right! Why is it people feel ok asking > us questions? > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > http://www.zazzle.com/TamarMag* > Tamar Mag Raine > [log in to unmask] > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > ----- Original Message ---- > From: "[log in to unmask]" <[log in to unmask]> > To: [log in to unmask] > Sent: Sunday, May 25, 2008 9:11:23 PM > Subject: Re: what were your childhoods like? > > > having written my last email, i am going to seem insane, > but realing the > email below, i have to ask > "why is it courageous for an adult to ask about a > pwd?" i see people all > the time who make me wonder this or that, but I'd never > invade their day by > asking personal questions. i just know the world is full > of all kinds and > really understanding a person comes only by getting to know > them. having them > answer a few questions would only give me some facts and > runs the risk of > irritating them. > > if a person went up to an over weight person and started > asking weight > related questions, that would be considered very rude. if > someone went up to > people of certain races and asked racial questions, that > would be very odd. i > could go on and on, but i do wonder why the feeling is pwd > are obligated to > educate when other groups aren't held to that. > > i really am going now - and i can see you all at my heels > chasing me out. > > i wish you all well. > > > In a message dated 5/10/2008 11:58:12 AM Pacific Daylight > Time, > [log in to unmask] writes: > > > Your comments are kind of abrupt and don't really > educate the folks > who had the courage to ask you...Now if they were being > rude and not > genuinely interested then I would be quick too...But what > if they > really want to understand PWD better? I guess it is just > the teacher > in me always trying to educate people. When I get asked > I usuall > have a couple minute conversation!! Course, I like to > talk alot, too!! > > > > > > > > **************Get trade secrets for amazing burgers. Watch > "Cooking with > Tyler Florence" on AOL Food. > (http://food.aol.com/tyler-florence?video=4&?NCID=aolfod00030000000002) > > ----------------------- > > To change your mail settings or leave the C-PALSY list, go > here: > > http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?SUBED1=c-palsy > > > ----------------------- > > To change your mail settings or leave the C-PALSY list, go > here: > > http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?SUBED1=c-palsy ----------------------- To change your mail settings or leave the C-PALSY list, go here: http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?SUBED1=c-palsy