This is true God would have us use our wisdom. You can love someone but sometimes you can not live with them. -- Can you imagine what a scarcity of news there would be If everybody obeyed > the Ten Commandments? I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is IN GOD WE TRUST Karen Carter '74 -KC- Ministries -------------- Original message ---------------------- From: Rhonda Partain <[log in to unmask]> > Forgive but be ever so careful about being in a relationship, forgiveness > doesn't mean in my opinion putting yourself back in to a position where you > or a child could be harmed! > Praying1! > Rhonda > > -----Original Message----- > From: The Electronic Church [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On > Behalf Of Rhonda Peveto > Sent: Friday, March 10, 2006 1:11 PM > To: [log in to unmask] > Subject: Re: my conversation, my words > > Hay Julie, > I was molested by a teacher, and yes, I do warn ppl all the time about my > brother-in-law, but I'm concerned and don't know what to do about a couple > of things. > My sister takes my nieces and there children down to Jeff's mom's where he > is staying! > You know it scares me lots. > My 3 nieces have been pregnant this year, and they are all her daughters. > One of them is only 15. Boy I guess without getting in to any more of this > mess, I'll just ask everyone to pray for all of us on this issue. > There is a lot of bitternesses and hatred for this man by other members of > my family!! It has torn our family apart, so would you all mind praying for > my family daily, that something of a relationship can be restored! > Or what ever God wants to do! > Thanks > Rhonda 2 > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "JULIE MELTON" <[log in to unmask]> > To: <[log in to unmask]> > Sent: Friday, March 10, 2006 11:09 AM > Subject: Re: my conversation, my words > > > > Rhonda Rhonda, > > > > The tricky thing in forgiving someone like a molester is to forgive > > without > > forgetting. I forgave my brother for molesting me, but I remembered it in > > that I didn't leave my nieces and nephews alone with him and warned my > > family to follow the same practice. What I learned from that, though, is > > that forgiving is for us, so that bitterness doesnt' take over our lives. > > > > > > > > > > JulieMelton > > visit me at > > www.heart-and-music.com > > Keep smiling! > > > > > > > > > > > >>From: Rhonda Peveto <[log in to unmask]> > >>Reply-To: The Electronic Church <[log in to unmask]> > >>To: [log in to unmask] > >>Subject: Re: my conversation, my words > >>Date: Fri, 10 Mar 2006 10:44:06 -0500 > >> > >>Hay Rhonda, > >>it's Rhonda 2. > >>Man, oh to be able to write like that. > >>It helped me also. just to hear not to hold on to stuff, and to let things > >>go!!!!! And of course to forgive. Sometime's I have alittle trouble. > >>I have a brother-in-law who molested my sister, and my niece, and boy he > >>talked to me, and it was hard to talk to him. > >>I just didn't want to be around him. > >>I had trouble with my sister going back with him, and still don't > >>understand, but I know god has to take care of all that, not me. > >>Thanks so much for what you wrote > >>Rhonda 2 > >> > >>----- Original Message ----- > >>From: "Rhonda Partain" <[log in to unmask]> > >>To: <[log in to unmask]> > >>Sent: Thursday, March 09, 2006 9:57 PM > >>Subject: Re: my conversation, my words > >> > >> > >> > That was the message I sent to a friend, and I wondered what some of > >> > you > >> > thought! > >> > She was hurt by members of a church, and still can't seem to get over > >>it. > >> > Rhonda > >> > > >> > -----Original Message----- > >> > From: The Electronic Church [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On > >> > Behalf Of Vicki and The Rors > >> > Sent: Thursday, March 09, 2006 9:48 PM > >> > To: [log in to unmask] > >> > Subject: Re: my conversation, my words > >> > > >> > Speaking of words, those are good words Rhonda. Thanks for sharing. > >> > > >> > Vicki > >> > > >> > > >> > -- > >> > No virus found in this incoming message. > >> > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > >> > Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 268.2.1/278 - Release Date: 3/9/2006 > >> > > >> > > >> > >> > >> > >>-- > >>No virus found in this outgoing message. > >>Checked by AVG Free Edition. > >>Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 268.2.1/278 - Release Date: 3/9/2006 > > > > > > -- > > No virus found in this incoming message. > > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > > Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 268.2.1/278 - Release Date: 3/9/2006 > > > > > > > > -- > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.375 / Virus Database: 268.2.1/278 - Release Date: 3/9/2006