Hi Pat if sounds like Vern is a little like me very self sificient and won't let someone help. But don't fill useless it probably has nothing to do with you it is just his independant spirit.
Father in Heaven please touch Pat and let her know her worth in you. Touch Vern also and let him know that sometimes we need someone to help us once in a while help him to be able to do this Lord when needed. In your precious name I pray Amen
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From: Pat Ferguson <[log in to unmask]>
> Hi Everyone,
>
> I'm feeling very useless right now.
>
> Vernon is ready to finish the top for the loving island, and it is super
> heavy. He needed to make sure he cut out the wholes in the right places, so
> he wanted to fit it on the island before he added the edging and the
> lamanent. I tried to lift it to help him, but it is too heavy for me.
>
> Now, I'm certain that the top will fit the island, and that he cut the
> wholes out in the right places, but when you are spending as much as
> $200.00 for such a huge top, it is good to be sure first.
>
> If he could have brought it in the kitchen to fit it first, he would know
> whether his wholes matched up with the places for the sink and the stove
> top. He will not ask for help carying it to the kitchen and fitting it on
> the island. He has indicated to me that he is kind of upset with me,
> because I can't help him lift it and carry it to the kitchen. I tried to
> lift it, but my hands hurt, especially my left hand that I injured last
> fall. I really feel bad about this.
>
> The lamanent cost him $150.00 and the ply wood cost him about $50.00. If
> things don't fit after he gets the lamanent on the top, and the wholes cut
> out of the fermica, then well, let's just say that $200.00 went down the
> drain, as he will have to rebuild the top.
>
> Please pray for him for a change of heart, and that he will ask for help.
> He has to fit it first, and then finish the top, and then put it on for
> real. He will really need help putting the top on for real.
>
> Please pray that when he puts on the fermica that the contact cement
> doesn't stink too badly. He doesn't have any way to vent for air
> circulation, so he will have to open a door or window, which is okay with
> me. I'm really worried about this, as well.
>
> I'm feeling very bad about all this, and I could certainly use your prayers
> right now, and lovings and squeezings, as well.
>
> Thanks much for praying.
>
> Love,
> Pat Ferguson