I know what you mean. I have been there. -- Christ is either Lord of all or he is not Lord at all. Karen Carter '74 > --0-1959417437-1123015272=:25811 > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=iso-8859-1 > Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit > > I think its something that needs much prayer. sometimes going to that person > causes more problems than help > > cindy > > Karen Carter <[log in to unmask]> wrote: > Well I know it says in the Bible to go to the person and if they don't respond > go to a few other christais and then to the whole congration > > -- > Christ is either Lord of all or he is not Lord at all. > Karen Carter '74 > > > > > Recently a friend and I have been discussing forgiveness. She was hurt by a > > former pastor, and still feels angry towards him, I know we are to forgive > > those who hurt us, and it is not even necessary that they apologize, but... > > how does one work through those hurt feelings! when one feels ignored, > > betrayed, and these feelings exist after several years, there must be more > > there somewhere! > > Is it always necessary to discuss a problem with the one who hurt us, to > > resolve it? > > and what if we talk and say "I was hurt when xyz happened" and they act as > > though it was a trivial thing, and something that should have not concerned > > us! > > Rhonda > > > Your White Lily Candle consultant! > **Want to know what a day in Heaven is like? Then come to > www.heavenscented.com > -They may forget what you did but they will never forget how you made them > feel.--Carl Buechner > > > > > > > > > --0-1959417437-1123015272=:25811 > Content-Type: text/html; charset=iso-8859-1 > Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit > > <DIV>I think its something that needs much prayer. sometimes going to that > person causes more problems than help</DIV> > <DIV> </DIV> > <DIV>cindy<BR><BR><B><I>Karen Carter <[log in to unmask]></I></B> > wrote:</DIV> > <BLOCKQUOTE class=replbq style="PADDING-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; > BORDER-LEFT: #1010ff 2px solid">Well I know it says in the Bible to go to the > person and if they don't respond go to a few other christais and then to the > whole congration<BR><BR>--<BR>Christ is either Lord of all or he is not Lord at > all.<BR>Karen Carter '74<BR><BR><BR><BR>> Recently a friend and I have been > discussing forgiveness. She was hurt by a<BR>> former pastor, and still feels > angry towards him, I know we are to forgive<BR>> those who hurt us, and it is > not even necessary that they apologize, but...<BR>> how does one work through > those hurt feelings! when one feels ignored,<BR>> betrayed, and these > feelings exist after several years, there must be more<BR>> there > somewhere!<BR>> Is it always necessary to discuss a problem with the one who > hurt us, to<BR>> resolve it?<BR>> and what if we talk and say "I was hurt > when xyz happened" and they act as<BR>> though it was a trivial > thing, and something that should have not concerned<BR>> us!<BR>> > Rhonda<BR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR><BR><DIV> > <DIV> > <DIV align=center> > <DIV> > <DIV> > <DIV> > <DIV><FONT face=system color=#57708f><FONT face=Arial><FONT size=5><FONT > face="arial black"><FONT color=#7f007f> Your White Lily Candle > consultant!</FONT></FONT></FONT></FONT></FONT></DIV> > <DIV><FONT face=system color=#57708f><FONT face=Arial><FONT size=5><FONT > face="arial black"><FONT color=#7f007f>**</FONT>Want to know what a day in > Heaven is like? Then come to</FONT> </FONT></FONT></FONT></DIV> > <DIV><FONT color=#57708f size=5><A > href="http://www.heavenscented.com/">www.heavenscented.com</A> </FONT></DIV> > <DIV><FONT face=system color=#57708f><FONT face="arial narrow" size=5>-They may > forget what you did but they will never forget how you made them feel.--Carl > Buechner<BR></FONT></DIV></FONT></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> > --0-1959417437-1123015272=:25811--