Kathy, I know this is a disapointment but you have had open and frank discussions hwich is progress. He will stumble and fall. Praying though. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Kathy Du Bois" <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Wednesday, July 20, 2005 11:24 AM Subject: Busted again! Hi guys, Notice how I didn't even need to put a name in the subject line this time. You guys quickly figured out what's up again. Yep, Chris is having his license suspended after a week. One day after having his license, the same day that he appeared in court, we learned that he took a bunch of kids to the movies. In Maine, your first drivers license is a provisional license.The regulations are that you can only drive other family members around and so on and so forth. Needless to say, none of those kids were related to Chris. We gave him a warning and we made sure that his girl friend's parents also new about the restrictions on his license. Yesterday, Chris had finally paid us enough so that he could get insured and drive independently. Greg and I have stipulated that he will pay for his own insurance. So, last night he took the car to Nicki's house and came home. Today, he went to Nicki's house, put her in the car and went out to eat. How do we know, Greg drove by one time and found the car in front of Nicki's house, then he came back later and it was gone. They were having lunch out. Greg walked in and sat down across from them, where they were eating, and asked for the keys. Chris was caught red handed and complied. Then, there was a policeman also having lunch so Greg went over to check out the rules and the officer said that for him to suspend the license he would have to see Chris actually driving, but if we press the issue, the state will support us. Chris also has a meeting with his probation officer this afternoon, at which time, all this will be coming out, including Chris riding in the car with a drunk person last week and, who knows what all else, and we have no idea what she will say about things. The sad thing is that, ever since last Thursday, we have been getting along much better with Chris. We've had some really open and frank discussions. I think that we're as disappointed in how things turned out as he is, but he has to learn to respect the law and to say "no," to his impulsivity. Thanks for letting me fil you in and thanks, as always, for praying. Who else, Chris's mom! Arg! -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.323 / Virus Database: 267.9.2/53 - Release Date: 7/20/2005