I'm not married, Matt but that still sounds like good advice for married folks and anyone else for that matter. I don't know what context the speaker used it in, but it makes sense that partners would seek the best for each other and rather than cursing their partner would pray for them and for themselves and whatever brought about the rough times between them. Who is the speaker on your tapes? Paul ----- Original Message ----- From: "Matt" <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Saturday, October 25, 2003 5:01 PM > Hi, we were just listening to our marage cds and one of the things said on > their is that the best thing we can do for our emotional health is to follow > something jesus said. > We should bless those who curse us. > Pray for those who spitefully use us. > Personally, I struggle with that but I am trying. > > Take Care, > > Matt