I DO NOT KNOW THAT JUDY FEELS CHEATED OR NOT, IF I ASK HER SHE WOULD LIE LIKE A RUG IF SHE DID. Oops. But, yes, I did not expect to decline any faster than the abs I had watched age. I was told what you have is it. -----Original Message----- From: Cleveland, Kyle E. [mailto:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 11:49 AM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: marriage Ken, I'm with you on the kids part, but if you're up front with a potential mate then that might be a mitigating factor. Problem is, with many of us CPer's, we were led to believe that our physical conditions would not worsen. Now that they have, a spouse might feel "cheated". It's a hard call. -Kyle -----Original Message----- From: Barber, Kenneth L. [mailto:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 11:14 AM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Well, if I were single, I'd just retire, I'd not be considering how my failing physical condition was affecting a wife and kids. You dicide on what you want to do and not do. You don't decide what are we going to do and where are we going.