AHH, YES, I WEND DOWN HILL FAST. -----Original Message----- From: Cleveland, Kyle E. [mailto:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Tuesday, September 24, 2002 1:30 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: feeling guilty or angry was : Missing Children Cool that Benjamin is attaining that insight. My kids, of course, are too young to feature it all out--especially the four-year-old. I guess I'm like you, Ken: more angry than guilty. If we'd known what the future had in store, we probably would not have had the youngest two kids. Who would have figured things would deteriorate so quickly, especially when you think of the things we could do when we were young adults, eh? -----Original Message----- From: Barber, Kenneth L. [mailto:[log in to unmask]] Sent: Tuesday, September 24, 2002 1:13 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: feeling guilty or angry was : Missing Children I HEAR THAT STUFF LOTS OF TIMES. I just do my best and get over it. Anything I could do I did. The things I can't do I did not do. Like it or not you can't change it. Since Benjamin has gotten past 14 he has seemingly became much more understanding. I guess maturity is setting in.