they have 24 hour care... That is the case in several people I know of. They have paid roommates who stay with them at night, then they get other people in the day. Well, Kathy Jo, I certainly understand the fear of the driver. You could have killed a lot of people, not just yourself! now to find ways of getting around -- how about taking the public bus, or paratransit, or walking/riding your chair where ever? mag