Jennifer, Great to have an update on you, I'm so glad things are going well for you so far. It is wonderful that your mother is being so supportive, it must make things so much easier for you. I've been busy studying - or at least trying to study! I've decided to finish the unit I am doing this semester, then defer for a year or so. I've become a little fed up with the academic grind, I've been so used to doing what the world expects of me, and have always been sooooo responsible and organised and together and mature, always doing what I should, and...... Well the othe week I just SNAPPED!!!! I thought, dammitt, I'm sick of this, I spent the years from age 7 to 24 severely depressed, then I finally crawl out of my depression, and what do I do???? Tie myself down to a university degree, am I MAD???? I WANNA HAVE SOME FUN!!!! So I'm going to defer for a year, try and find some part time work ('cause a little cash always helps in having fun), and find some fun to be had....and, well, have it. But I now find myself on the horns of a pointy dilemma, I have no idea what people DO when they are having fun (I'm only half kidding - sad innit it?). So I need some suggestions. Answers on the back of a post card please everyone! Rayna