Hi Betty, Yes, we are, I called and talked to the nurse - who said little other, than she was fading, and the nurse is glad we are coming. I just went thru this two years ago with my friend Pat - who died at 48 from breast cancer - she put up a 6 year fight, and bless her heart she came to see me graduate from college. I am glad your Mom has had so little time to be sick, not that I happy she has this - but thankfully it has not been years, even tho months is really to long. The important thing now - she is surrounded by people who can let her go and she knows she is loved and cared about. There are stages and if she is ready to go - everyone else has to jump on the same wagon. Amber understands and doesn't want her to suffer. I just wish we had taken that kodak moment - with the two of them some months ago. Hugs Sweetie!!! Trisha > Trisha and Amber are going to stop by to see her this afternoon, and I'm > very > glad. Mom has such a special place in her heart for Amber. I know that > she > loves her and since I didn't have children, I'm glad that my friend's > child > has brought "grandmother feelings" to my Mom's heart. > > Thanks Miss Amber. I love you and I know Mom does too. And thank you > Trisha, for giving my Mom a chance to see you both again. > > In a message dated 06/19/2000 12:28:52 PM Eastern Daylight Time, > [log in to unmask] writes: > > > Betty, I'm truly happy for you for your acceptance and the peace and > strength > > you have found. Our prayers are with you. > > > > Elaine and family > >