Dave, (I meant to say well said in my first response-my fingers went to fast!) We share the same explanation with our kids and they may not like it but I think they do understand. I explain to the kids that it is my responsibility as their parent. I had a lady approach us in a restaurant this past Friday night and complimented us on how well behaved our children were. I am so proud of them. Gosh, maybe they are listening and learning. Samantha ----- Original Message ----- From: Dave & Tammy Canfield <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Monday, February 28, 2000 9:14 AM Subject: Re: Parenting and CP > Wee said. Boundaries have to be set in order for our children to become > responsible adults. Unfortunately it is not done enough with children in > our society. > Samantha > > Samantha, > > This is what we consistently tell our kids when they whine about us being > "unfair" or whatever. We remind them that it is our job as parents to teach > them rules in our house so that they know to follow rules once they walk out > the door. > > Dave