Hi Renee! My grandmother had some strange ideas when I was a preteen she would tell me to forget about dating and such because fellows do not want to deal with disabilities. After I started dating though she began to tell me that fellows cause me physical harm. She still tries to get me to believe that but I think she realizes I am not listening anymore but it sure did a nasty number on me when I was younger and still affects me a little I think but it gets better. Take care Charlene