Betty wrote: >>>"Asexual" 1. Not having sex, No sex, Nada, Squat, Diddly. 2. Not getting any. Causes are varied. a. Sometimes the couple in question can be so stressed and busy that interest in sex takes a back seat. b. Sometimes, after having been married for many years (or months as the case may be) the couple tends to wake up, look over at each other and think "you again?" c. Sometimes it's just a "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" kind of thing. The first symptomatic presentation of this causal factor may be recurring headaches (this symptom often presents in the case of causal factor b. aswell). d. Lack of viable heterosexual partner options (i.e., "All the good ones are gay or otherwise taken."). e. Sometimes, as in my case, thoughts of sex are immediately followed by thoughts of "been there, done that, bought the tee shirt." <<< We'll take a, b, c, e. What is sex again ? Yvonne full-time psychiatric nurse, married to Mark (SAHD), mother to Robert (NDA) and Anthony (CP) - almost 3 years old!! HELP!!!