My feelings exactly, nothing is going to happen by me sitting at home and people
will just have deal with the best that they can.   i'm too odd, i even go out by
myself, you know have a few beers hear some music.  hate to say this, but if i
waited to go out friends i would become a shut-in and go crazy. not that i'm not
already there.

kinggimp

Gary Peterson wrote:

> Hi all,
>
> While I agree that a bar might be the best place to meet someone, if
> that's where you feel the most comfortable, I say go for it!!  If
> nothing else, give your self creadet for getting out there.  If
> someone displays discomfort by you being there that's their problem
> not yours.  If you go to a bar 20 times, and never meet anyone, you're
> still lots better off then if you just sat home and did nothing
>
> Hang in there and keep getting out!!-Gary
>
> On Mon, 12 Apr 1999, lawrence keplinger wrote:
>
> > why should anyone get offended with this topic, so far it has been mature and i
> > will keep it that way. besides these days everyone is free about their
> > sexuality so why can't we.  this isn't only about sex, but relationships in
> > general. my family thinks i go out meet people, but i go out get to away from
> > my apartment and hear bands.  most women probably are scare of me and some
> > probably get freak out.  if a women gets my attention, i keep looking at them.
> > sometime it cool, because they will come to talk to me. it sucks, between me
> > speech and loud noise its almost impossible to communicate with them.   if i am
> > with friends they will help.  i know the bar is not a place to find a real
> > relationship, so we don't need to get into that.
> >
> > kinggimp
> >
> > R. Hintz wrote:
> >
> > > I appreciate the fact that this subject is being addressed. As a woman, I've
> > > had questions for years, which no one seems to be able to answer. I applaud
> > > the courage it took to bring it up. If the subject of normal sexuality
> > > (whatever that is) offends someone, they can simply delete these e-mails. I
> > > feel confident it can be discussed in a tactful & mature manner. Renee
> >