Heh Paul, well everyone immediately started saying things like, it happened
for a reason, or god didn't want us to have the bike for some reason.
That from people who know we recently started following a christian
lifestyle more so than we had been.
In truth though, you just don't want to hear anything like that from anyone
this soon after such a loss.
You want to sit back and try and take it all in and start to deal with it.
I need to read the fruits of the spirit again to start trying to deal better
with people in times like this.
Especially my mom who seems to get to me more than anyone, beside my wife.
I always want to quote first peater 3, or a portion of it which says a quiet
and gental spirit is precious in the eyes of the lord, but it's just my nice
way of saying please shut up!  An, I know that's not the right approach.

Matt