Phil,
This is the kind of thing that drove Paul off the list,  our semi
encouraging Chris in unhealthy ventures.  I must tell you, and everyone
else for that matter, that I have a real problem with us saying that we are
praying for chris and his wife in such a way that he could interpret as
encouragement in goals that most of us have to know are not wise.  I will
just say flat out that I am scared to death for that innocent child, if
ever conceived in that situation.  I would almost feel that we should be
held partially responsible for the safety of that child, were anything to
happen because we didn't have the guts to tell him to wait, at least wait,
if not forget it altogether. I congratulate Rhonda especially for such
gracious responses in this situation.  You said everything much better than
I, Rhonda.  Thank you!
          Don't worry, I'm not going to leave  or anything over this issue,
but I don't think that we are doing Chris or Christine any favors by not
speaking up and telling them the truth.
Kathy
Always, for His glory!


At 08:38 PM 2/16/2005, you wrote:
>Keith,
>
>There is a long history of Chris which many on this list are aware.  Next
>time we talk on the phone, I will explain.  Chris comes and goes on the list
>more than I change my socks.  He's received more help from people on this
>list than anyone.  Both on and off the list and via the telephone.  I knew
>if we answered his question, this would happen because it has many times
>before.
>
>Phil.
>
>
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>From: "Keith Hodges" <[log in to unmask]>
>To: <[log in to unmask]>
>Sent: Wednesday, February 16, 2005 6:29 PM
>Subject: Re: Chris off list
>
>
> > I think that Chris was feeling patronised, I do not think it would hurt to
> > apologise, even if he did misunderstand.
> >
> > yours in Christ
> >
> > Keith
> >
> >
> >
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