Hi Kathy,
What a terrible way to be treated and at a time when you needed love and 
reassurance.  The medical people can become insensative to the patients 
needs.  They may start out with compassion but it does not seem to stay 
around too long.  I am sorry you had that kind of experience.
Virgie and Hoshi
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Kathy Du Bois" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Saturday, February 04, 2006 7:52 AM
Subject: Re: Donna


> For me, the worst part of my miscarriage was that, I delivered at
> home, so I knew that it was a fully formed baby and I had to wrap him
> up and bring him with me to the emergency room.  The midwife had
> warned me that the people in the emergency room might be a bit crass
> and insensitive,  and she was right.  They kept referring to my baby
> as, "contents!"  I kept wanting to scream, it's a boy and it was
> loved and wanted.  It's not just contents, like something that you
> buy in a jar at the store     !"  Unfortunately, I didn't have the
> energy and since I had a pretty bad strep infection myself, which was
> putting my life at risk as well, I just had to let the insults go and
> get through the whole situation with the help of the
> Lord.  Unfortunately, they didn't even offer to give him back to us
> and we were too emotionally distracted to ask.  Poor Donna.  She is
> in my prayers.  Just give her lots of hugs and lots of
> chocolate.  For me, at least, time has eased the pain of the
> memory.  I just look forward to seeing Aaron in heaven some day.  I
> know that I will!
> Kathy
>
>
> At 09:43 PM 2/3/2006, you wrote:
>>Hospitals can be so  uncompassitionate at times,  when I had my 
>>miscarriage
>>I heard a nurse in the hall say "We gave her the oxyatocin so she can 
>>abort
>>the rest on her own"
>>I was devastated!
>>God be near Dona,  calm all the thoughts of I should have, or if  only I
>>had,  send peace that toes beyond what can ben understood,  surround her
>>with those that love her, and will show her that love even more now when 
>>she
>>neds it the most.
>>Rhonda
>>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>From: The Electronic Church [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On
>>Behalf Of Phil Scovell
>>Sent: Friday, February 03, 2006 9:39 PM
>>To: [log in to unmask]
>>Subject: Donna
>>
>>Donna had a second miscarriage this week.  She had a DNC yesterday as a
>>result but her blood test showed some aftermath in her fallopian tubes.
>>They had her scheduled to undergo a procedure where an I V is run to 
>>cleanse
>>the rest of the aftermath from the fallopian tubes tomorrow.  My son 
>>called
>>and said waiting an extra day was simply unacceptable.  So what did her
>>doctor do?  Sent her to the Emergency Room to sit for several hours.  As 
>>if
>>she wasn't upset enough the way it was already.  Sandy just called me at
>>almost 7:30 to say they were back in an examining room now but I have no
>>idea how long the procedure with the I V will take.  I am assuming not 
>>much
>>more time that it takes for an I V to empty.
>>
>>Phil.
>>
>>
>>Jesus Is Your Only Problem.
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