Perhaps something came up of urgency. Rhonda is right, hearing the other
side is helpful. I have invited Pastor Willie George to do the same
regarding George and Jeniffer, only named no names.

Brad


At 06:46 PM 2/26/2005, you wrote:
>I will probably get my hands slapped for this, but regarding Gretchen, the
>pastor's wife where she was in the women's recovery home, wanted Gretchen to
>be accountable to her when she left the home.  Gretchen asked her if she
>could spend some time with her after she was out of the home.  The past'r's
>wife said she would have to think about that and pray about that, as she was
>very busy.  So then, a month later, this lady in the church, was supposed to
>spend time with her.  Gretchen went to find this lady today after they had
>set up an appointment, and she was no where to be found.  It would seem to
>me (just an old Iowa farm girl) that if a pastor's wife wanted you to be
>accountable to her that she would have time to spend with you and that she
>would realize, especially in their type of ministry, that Gretchen might
>need some extra encouragement.  I know this will probably ruffle some
>feathers, but I just can't see that this is right.  I guess I am just too
>practical.  I instructed Gretchen that she has her family and many people
>don't even have that.  I think she is very disheartened now that she could
>not find this other lady in the church.
>
>Sandy
>
>
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