Well, I had a pastor call once, to tell me how wrong I was for leaving, and
that I was going against God's will for my life, and that if I would only
decide to follow God and return, all in my life would  get better, my
marriage, my family, and all that was troubling me!
There was no mention made of the hurt I felt, no mention of mistakes that
may have been made, just pointing out that I was wrong.
I have since forgiven this man, and pray for him regularly, interesting
thoughts though.
I am not presently in a local church,
visited one the other week where my cousin is the pastor.
I'll have to think about this, will write later.

Rhonda