Hi all.  As most of you know, i am getting married in november.  I found out
today from work that they want me to transfer in the beginning of august.  I
can't tell them i won't transfer then because it is the end of our fiscal
year august 31 and i could forfit my job.  Problem is though, that my
fiancee and I decided that to save money... if i had to move in september or
october we would just live together until the wedding.  We both don't really
like the idea but it's like we have no choice.  I don't know what to do.
I'm so confused... i don't know what is right and wrong.  Both my fiancee
and I are born-again Christians, we will in no way have sex before marriage
so if we made/make that pledge to god is living together before marriage a
sin?  Is it wrong?  And what do i do if it is?  I know of other christian
couples who have lived together before marriage.  I am just so scattered
right now.  Please pray for clarity for me?  And above all, pray Gods will
be done.
I love you all.
Jenifer Barr.
When the trumpet blows... I'm outta here!
AIM: jenibear1998
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