Rhonda,
It can be said of you that you have been a faithful wife and friend to Ben:
that you have stood by him through thick or thin and are still standing.
That speaks tons for you faith, Rhonda, and don't you get discouraged.  Who
knows what Ben might learn of the Lord through this experience and God has
placed him with you and in your care because you can offer him good counsel.
I know it is difficult for you as well as for h8im but I know that God will
be you strength and He will "never leave nor forsake you".  Hold on to Him,
Rhonda, He loves you both and is able in all things.

I am praying!

Ned