That sure is an interesting thought!  I wonder though as huans can we truly
forget, or is it rather that we don't make it a practice to daily or weekly
list the offenses others have  commited against us?
I've been married for almost 21 years now, and I know there many times that
through word or action I have hurt the one I promised to love till death do
us part, and he has hurt me.  And if I wanted too, I could remember some of
the deepest hurts, there is a  memory of them, but the pain of them is not
something that hinders my love for Ben, because I love him I have forgiven
him, and as time goes by, I find it more dificult to recall speciffic worda
and actions.  I was thinking of Angel here, and the rape of her daughter, a
horriffic event, I am sure she will never forget,  so what do you all think?
Does forgiveness mean total forgetfullness?

Rhonda