I had an interesting experience along these lines yesterday, I heard someone
who had hurt me deeply wasn't doing well financially.  He is in danger of
loosing his house, where once, I would have felt a sense of revenge, a sort
of "He deserves it, it's his own fault" I felt sad for him.  My anger has
been replaced, I still remember the hurt, but pray for this man, and his
family,  so I can see God has pointed me from justice to mercy, from revenge
to His love!
Rhonda